Saturday, May 24, 2008

Good The Hellos.Okhade.qwerty-text testing-text testing.khi khi.I take this task of gloryfying the concept of arrange marriage today.Marriage-A brief history-> Mating was a social activity at sometime.Gee,imagine the diversity offerd to you when marriage as an institution didn't exist.Live-in was the primary concept.Then,gradually ,some egoistic shitheads,let the possesive feeling in them take over.Hence marriage was conceptualized.(don't temme his name,the one whose brainchild it was that is).However,mates found a solution.Love marriage they named it,but oldies were always boring.oldies responded with the idea called Arranged marriage.Arranged marriage-The concept i am in love with.The one that is for me.Btw,the crossbreed,Arranged love marriage also do happen.Now,now,now.Before you fellow youths raise your eyebrows.Before you label me as backward.Just lend me an ear(or your eye to be more specific).Picture this:close your eyes,lift your left leg,with your right leg thumb downward pointing.Now resume your original position.So you get intimately involved in a relationship.Imagine the going around phase.Going...Going...Going,pleading for dates,giving silly missed calls,stupid sorry gifts(include them all).You diuscover each other to the root(presumably)(as shahid kareena did),you sacrifice your true self,become everything but you.Then the earlr sensations wornoff.A burden the realtionship becomes(imagine it becoming denser.)In some rare occasions,inspite of all the obstacles and bad omens along the way,the relationship,completes the journey to marriage.(A love marriage,shit).Now,you start expecting an ideal spouse(you have selected him for yourself,why not).With love won now,you both now start behaving your true self,the prob starts.Divorce follows after years of stress,or least of all,you carry on with virtually no romance left all the way.Arrange marriage-Not with no reason,experience has been said to be respected.First of all,the gaps in age that are looked for, ensure a mature realtionship.Second of all,With your spouse randomly selected,approved only after your consent offcourse,there is nothing much you expect,so every thing you get is like a bonus.Then the sensation factor->remember the "rosy sunglasses" world at the start of any relationship?You get to live the same phase here,,in arranged marriage that is,after marriage,thus elongating delight through marriage.Roles are clearly defined right from the word go.and no transition in roles,from lover to being the spouse.Hence proved(hopefully).

1 comment:

Winnie the poohi said...

cynical tsk tsk....

pweez turn of word verification!

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